As high-achieving women of this modern day and age, we all live in a highly masculinized world. My work rests on the fundamental premise that living and connecting with our feminine energy is the key to achieving love transformation in our lives and relationships. We are all women of an era where the messages of femininity have been mocked and equated with being a doormat, or somehow being subservient to men. These are myths that are propagated by those that have an incomplete knowledge of this concept and a lack of awareness on what it truly means to be connected with this Universal energy, endowed to us women by nature. When you are in your feminine energy, you are not busy doing, but instead enjoying that which is before you. Yes, you want that external career success, but you also want that amazing, fulfilling relationship — that is what a balanced life looks like, and that is what reconnecting with your feminine energy will help you achieve. A woman who knows how to connect with her feminine side will naturally and effortlessly be irresistible to men, or to her current partner. This is true, even for highly successful and powerful women. Look at my own life as an example.
How to stay true to your feminine energy in a relationship
An alpha male can easily make your heart melt the minute you hear his voice and connect face-to-face. This is where your feminine energy and his masculine energy collide creating sexual chemistry. The reason these two energies work well together is that they are polar opposites. And you want more of what he has, masculine energy. Being a woman, you possess both energies.
Dating Den Episode 48 – With Corey Jenkins: What Does Being Feminine Actually Look Like? The topic of masculine and feminine energy has been a very.
Posted by Sandy Weiner in communication skills in dating , love after 40 1 comment. Wow, you are right, feminine lead has lots of power. I am not use to that and could definitely use some examples I can later transform into my own moves. I came up with sharing my feelings about the movies, art, dance and architecture, and it works sometimes. Today I found something simpler: share my feelings after finding my lost makeup bag with all the best of my makeup.
Sometimes it is getting hard to remember everything. Especially after I got a very good masculine response to this one. Does anyone has more practical tips for feminine topics please? Your email address will not be published. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Notify me of new posts by email. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam.
Surrendering To The Masculine Energy
Anita Stoudmire is a licensed professional therapist, love mentor, and founder of Better Love Movement , an online coaching business that helps women of all ages master their feminine power and create the relationships they want. Based in Virginia, Anita has a private counseling practice known as Growth Therapy Center , which focuses on couples counseling and relationship issues for singles.
Anita is passionate about all things love and relationships as she knows that the quality of our lives are that much richer when our personal relationships are healthy and fulfilling. I want to hear you describe the difference between feminine and masculine energy, and maybe even the difference between energy and power or if those are interchangeable for you. This is my favorite topic in the world.
Your authentic feminine energy will attract a man worth keeping. Date a guy, not because you are truly interested in him, but rather because he provides other.
One of my greatest life lessons occurred when I was 22ish- it involved one of my deepest loves, a gentleman significantly older than I. He was a well traveled and educated CEO of a local company, with a penchant for cigars and woodworking. We were on our way home from our second date and fast approaching the freeway exit for my apartment. For half the ride all I could think about was how I wished to date this guy, but what could I give this man who seemingly had it all?
So I asked. I began: financially I was just able to pay my bills, my first flight was only a couple years before, I was working 3 jobs, my savings account balance was zero, I was lacking a degree, and I was not a super model. What could I possibly give him other than my respect, love, attention, affection, joy, and laughter…?
How Masculine and Feminine Energies Impact Relationships
The topic of masculine and feminine energy has been a very popular subject over the last 5 or 10 years. But what exactly does being in your feminine energy mean? Guest, Corey Jenkins says it can be as easy as turning on some music and doing what feels natural to you. Corey says he feels femininity can be found in physical aspects such as long hair and high heels, but there is a less logical, creative and nurturing aspect of femininity also.
Vulnerability and unpredictability are soft feminine traits but both the man and the woman need to be vulnerable in a relationship in order to connect.
We’re having a DEEPER conversation about the masculine & feminine energy in the dating process and how these concepts are often.
Some are in fact traits all humans possess, but others are most definitely down to our essence as the female of the species. There is nothing wrong with this. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable should be viewed as a strength and not a weakness. Being vulnerable can mean anything from knowing when to ask for help, to knowing when to give your heart to someone fully. Allowing the side of you that is unsure, unsteady and maybe even scared, to be witnessed by the lover you trust is a practice that both sexes in the relationship will benefit from.
There is a power both in asking and answering a need from a partner. You have to put yourself first in order to be truly effective for anyone else, so tap into the skills you were born with or have acquired along the way and use them. Even if your outcomes or beliefs are sometimes judged as irrational, hold fast to what your inner voice is telling you.
How to Use Feminine Energy to Connect With A Man
I went to college at one of the top hippie schools in the country. One good friend in particular wore baggy overalls, an earth toned t-shirt, black Doc Martens and a rain coat every single day. She slicked back her straight, brown hair into a hair tie in the same position, no matter what the event or occasion.
Being in your masculine – or boy – energy works wonders in your even more effortless ways to let a man know he’s lucky to have you. Dating.
Is there a part of you that has given up hope of ever finding the love of your life? But, deep down, you secretly yearn for a committed, healthy, relationship with a man. A relationship that is so spectacular, you could see yourself spending the rest of your life with him? Even if this is your desire , you may have lost hope, because you have no idea how to attract the love of your life. They married right out of college because that is what everyone did at that time.
And it took me a few more relationships, to finally get it right. At least the attraction part. Wayne Dyer. Many times women who succeed in their career but not their love life, write off the possibility of ever finding their soulmate.
Feminine Energy: How to Embrace It, Release It and Increase It
Exploring questions from your dating visualization. Separating codependency from your authentic self. Choosing authenticity means choosing your soulmate. A closer look at your needs. Getting clear on your value. Making the love you seek parental.
Being the first one to initiate contact on a dating site, or asking for his number; Planning and paying for dates (or asking him out on a date).
Did you know that you were born with both masculine and feminine qualities? The traditional view is that men are masculine and women are feminine. Popular culture on the other hand would like you to believe that male and female are born equal. As a Dating Coach I deal with this rather too often. The brain function between the male and female embryo is exactly the same. At 8 weeks however, the male foetus is flooded with testosterone that destroys all communication pathways between the left side of the brain responsible for processing language and the right side of the brain where emotion is processed.
Adding weight to the reason why women love communicating and sharing their feelings and why they are so good at it too! We are all born with both masculine and feminine traits. Neither of these energies is superior to the other. It is important to embrace the natural strength you possess and the predominantly feminine or masculine energy that you were born with. This is what makes you unique.